ajar anak tentang "sharing"

research showed that
"Most children don't understand the concept of "mine" and "yours" until they're 3 years old" . I agree with that. teaching children is not easy. I have twin so it is more challenging to teach them about sharing,
I noticed yang my twin are totally different. When they are playing, zahrah (adik) tends to be more authority. She feels that all toys  belongs to her.Sometimes, she just take the toys from zahirah (kakak) roughly.then,zahirah will start crying...

recently, zahirah will fight back,,she knows that its mine!!not yours..!!!
this happen quit sometime, until i figure out how to teach them about sharing..
here what i did to teach them about sharing...
(a) praise them..
when things happen, i explained to zahrah "zahrah, ini kakak punya.tak baik ambil. zahrah baik kan.."i think kalau kita puji anak kita mesti dia rasa lebih responsible . so that she will give back to her sister.
 
(b)explain them the meaning of sharing
kijkuil, pll;p'/bila twin gaduh berebutkan barang, i just tell then "kita kan adik beradik, kenala share.."

that are what i did..if you need more tips, try to click here ,
(WILL try the other tips soon)
here are the photo taken showing that my twin is sharing things :)

share bicycle

share adik..:p

share stickers

share toys

share biscuits

share basket

share trolly

last note!

are you sleeping versi islamic :)

i think all mommies love nursery rhymes rite. have you try sing a nursery rhymes song to your children..what song is that?
twinkle twinkle little star or old macdonalds had a farm..
or maybe london bridge...
i found out that my children learn very fast through singing..currently, their favorite nursery rhymes song is are you sleeping. however, i try to switch the lyrics to be islamic.

the original lyris " are you sleeping, are you sleeping, brother john, brother john, morning bells are ringing, morning bells are ringing, ding dong bell."

my pithching tak lari k..

i open my mouth wider so that you can hear my singing..:)

so i switch the lyrics to " are you sleeping, are you sleeping, brother muhammad, brother muhammad, morning bells are ringing, morning bells are ringing, jom solat, jom solat.."

in my opinion, if we as a mother nak nyanyi lagu nyursery rhymes yang fames zaman kita kecil kecil dulu, ok la.but , as a muslim why dont we sing more islamic.let them know the words of muhammad and solat..what do u think? do you have any other islamic nursery rhymes song..please share with me k..

*last note* :::::: maher zain song (insyallah) pun best gak kalau nak nyanyi untuk anak, cuma it is not a nursery rhymes song laa :P

last note!